Everyday is the day that starts the rest of my life. Since this is my first entry let me get
up to date. 4
years of my life was in the pen. I do believe if God at times my faith have been shaken. I
have one
son that is 4months and his brother from the same woman I take care of.
I work in the construction field as a concrete field man.I like it, its a trade that I no.
My BM is tati so if I refer to her again it will be by that name. tati is 20 which had a lot to
do with our
relationship as a whole. poping pills,smoking weed,drinking,as I say to each it's own
but when it
comes to the kids or my money going to it it's all bad. Get this my place,my lease,my
checks paid al
the bills not some,and I came to the house to find her and her friends smoking week
around the kids
need I say how hott I was. A happened pen that day, I did not touch her but the police
was called. so
here I' with the lease in hand to state that I will be taking the kids,what I was told was
that I better
leave or I would go to jail...a place I was in before she came. Now I know any who I'm a
far from
bitter...no thats a like I'm only because there was more to it. Like she stoled my truck
and I had to pay
$1,000 + to get it out. I gave her money all the time to find out she did not buy the milk
for or diapers
the kids need... Starting from now I am excited about a few opps that I have in front of
me wish me well as I wish you well
"Aaron"
Hi and thanks for your wishes. I have searched the net for playgroups
and/or some sort of
organization that is set up for dad's and their kids, to no avail.
Every play group, single "parent" organization and the like are truly
designed as social groups for moms. I did join Indian Guides through
the YMCA, but the tribe I joined has been established for years and the
kids have already formed their "clicks" which leaves my son as the
outcast.
My story is like many others; my (ex) wife had an affair for about 6
months before she told me she was leaving. I found that her boyfriend
was a crack addict. Eventually she broke it off with him, but her
lifestyle seems to be that of a teenager, party all the time, date as
many men as she can, sleep when she is not running around, ignore the
kids needs and desires. Just like the playgroups, the court system is
skewed towards mothers which made it nearly impossible for me to get
primary custody of my children. I pay my support (and more). I see my
kids almost every day. I do whatever it takes to make my kids lives
better in this rough situation that is not their fault.
Craigslist seemed like a good place to attempt to meet other dads (or
moms or couples) who might just have a similar need to mine. In this
day and age of broken families and parents always on the go, it is
difficult for kids to be KIDS. Mine get up at 6am and often don't get
home until 7 or 8pm, no time for relaxing no time to meet friends.
I welcome any contact from you and will offer up any more information
you might like to assist me in making the it better for my kids and the
thousands of other kids out there whom I imagine are in the same
situation